●● 几天前,小妹子带着孩子们回去國外自己組織的家了!之后,相信在短期内,將不会有老爸的子女们從外地回來古晋探望他.每个人有每个人的忙,有嗎只能是电話声音久而久之一次的问候吧!説过,老爸有5个子女+4个女婿+1个媳妇儿+14个孫=24人,但又怎么样?現在84高龄,依然面对孤单!老爸沒有兒女圍繞膝前+享有含貽弄孙之樂的場面!老爸现在只有我這位已嫁鸡随鸡的大女兒+当家的大女婿丶隔着几条街丶算作是近在咫尺的照顧吧了!作为他的子女们,這2个月來对著他的一举一动【慢慢地退化】也頗有傷感:
大家都明白,老爸真的高齡老矣,他对他所思所想做的丶顯然也只能停在想罷了,他在付諸行动上,也因為腦筋与手腳的配合都慢了好幾拍,已甚無能為力!~~~尤为重要是他不被允许自己开車(事实上他也力不从心)丶生活的不能尽如己意,感覚他的脾气也变化无常!我们很想時光能倒流一点点,让他再做一些他想做的事丶再分享他对我们的关愛,当然那已是个妄想!
他和他的子女们都瞭解到一个不変的事实:【這輩子恐怕大家都很难重回兒時丶共同生活在一个屋簷下的光景!】●● 最近,网络流传着這段短文:~~~父母子女的缘份~~~你的孩子並不属於你他们是生命延续的代表他们经你而來但非為你而生你可以给他们愛卻不能给予思想因為他们有自己的心你可以给孩子一个家但這不是他心宁的住所因為他们的心早已飞到他明天的家你可以尽力去愛他们却不能要求他们愛你.....
龙应台的新書:【目送】也写了
~~~【有些路呀,只能一个人走,我慢慢地丶慢慢地瞭解到,所謂父子女丶母子女一場,只不过意味着,你和他的缘份就是今生今世,不断地在目送他的背影漸行漸逺....】
●● 家里只有書架子,沒有書房!
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●● 附近还有一座不久前装修好的悠久历史(1879年迄今)古堡:四方塔 Square Tower,它將闢為一位原住民艺术家作品展览埸地.
● How the mouse deer tricked the Crocodile. The mouse deer wanted to cross the crocodile infested river. He flattered the crocodiles by referring crocodile to their size and strength." However,"he said," My family's bigger than yours,our strength is in our numbers."
● " This cannot be!",screamed the King Crocodile,"my family is both powerful in physique and large in numbers."
● "In which case, let me count them to verity the truth!" said Mouse deer. "Line your family up,side by side across the river."
● "Very well!" said King Crocodile.He ordered all his family to line up and they stretched from one bank of the river to the other.
● The little Mouse deer jumped from one crocodiles back to the other, counting as he went along, until he reached the other bank.
● Once he arrived, he said, " O,King croc, you were right: you have a big family.But are stupid! All I wanted was to cross the river without being eaten!"
● The crocodiles roared anger and the little mouse deer skipped off to join his laughing friends in the jungle.
